Are you wondering if the Taurus man you’ve been lusting over is just as interested in you as you are in him? It may be challenging to figure out if he’s sexually attracted to you or if he only sees you as a friend. But that’s what I’m here for!
So, what are the signs a Taurus man is sexually attracted to you? Generally, he would be openly flirtatious, affectionate, and touchy with you. You will become the object of all his attention as he becomes genuinely interested in and attuned to everything you do.
This comprehensive guide discusses everything you need to know about how Taurus men show their sexual desires for women. Read further for more!
Taurus men are sensual creatures, which means if you want to arouse them sexually, you should engage their senses. Here are some of their favorite sexual turn-ons:
- Sweet scent of women’s perfume
- Teasing, provocative voice
- Intimate touches on the lips, ears, and neck
- Music that exudes an intimate ambiance
- Gentle kisses
Most of all, Taurus men would love it if they took things slowly. Undressing slowly, talking slowly, even dancing slowly right before the deed would turn them on instantly, making the sexual experience more fulfilling for both of you.
23 Signs a Taurus Man is Sexually Attracted to You
Knowing if a Taurus man has the hots for you can be difficult. They can both be loud and confident or shy and awkward. Luckily, I have compiled every telltale sign to which you should pay closer attention.
Here are 23 signs a Taurus man’s sexual interest in you is apparent:
1.He Flashes You His Bedroom Eyes
As Tony Montana once said, “The eyes, chico. They never lie.” this holds especially true for Taurus men. They are known for their expressive eye contact, which conveys their genuine emotions when words fail them.
A Taurus man will direct their intense, smoldering gaze at you and keep them there if they can. This means they’re drawn to your beauty like a moth to a flame, and they’re probably even mentally undressing you as you speak.
However, there are times that Taurus men will prefer being discreet when it comes to their staring. They will keep looking at you, hoping you won’t notice. Keep note that this doesn’t make them any less attracted to you!
2.He Gets Touchy-Feely With You
Need I say more? Taurus men are notoriously affectionate, and this trait can manifest in many physical ways if he’s sexually attracted to you. As such, this is the most accurate sign that he’s sexually attracted to you.
Here are some examples:
- Lingering hugs or warm embraces
- Playful pat on the arm or back
- Gentle touches on the arm, hand, or fingers
- Plays with your hair
- Holds your hand
- Cuddling or snuggling
- Light tickles on the back or neck
Although he can also be touchy-feely with his close friends, they would amp this level up when he’s with you. You can test this out by initiating innocent touches or hugs yourself. If he doesn’t pull away quickly and even keeps your hold there even longer, he wants more with you.
3.He Showers You With Compliments
If a Taurus man has the hots for you, he would also show it through words complimenting your physical appearance. They’re all about external beauty since they’re ruled by the planet of love, Venus, so don’t expect anything about your wit or intelligence yet.
He would praise you for your body, sense of style and fashion, and captivating eyes. He would even tell you your smile is infectious, or that you have a great laugh, or that you smell great.
You will probably hear these compliments frequently, every chance he gets—he’s just that into you!
4.He Openly Flirts With You
Usually, a Taurus man would be straight to the point when he likes a woman. Although they are signs that fall on the shyer, easily intimidated side of the zodiac, they value honesty and sincerity nonetheless.
As such, when he is sexually attracted to you, you don’t need to worry about mixed signals. He’s going to lay it all on the thick: cheesy pick-up lines, open body language, sensual touches (with consent, of course), and more.
He would also flirt with you through text messages or DMs on social media. Expect some suggestive emojis as they put into writing just how much he wants to take it to the next level with you.
5.He Asks You More About Yourself
Even if his sexual desires were as clear as day, he would still want to make you feel important, respected, and listened to. A Taurus man wouldn’t jump the gun straight ahead, and he has to know more about you first before letting things heat up.
He will move past the mundane, superficial getting-to-know-each-other stuff and display genuine interest in what you are as a person, friend, daughter, colleague, and even lover.
Here are some questions he might ask you:
- What are you still hoping to accomplish in life?
- What are your current priorities in this phase of your life?
- What are your pet peeves? What really frustrates you?
- What is your favorite childhood memory?
- How is your relationship with your parents/siblings/family?
6.He Shows That He’s Genuinely Interested
In addition to what I’ve said earlier, a Taurus man who’s totally in this together with you will show genuine interest in you, your hobbies, likes and dislikes, and basically just your entire existence.
Usually, Taurus men are mentally absent in conversations. So if he pays a lot of attention to what you’re saying and even remembers the stuff you’ve said, he’s definitely attracted to you.
You could also compare his actions when he’s talking to other girls. He would appear to be politely listening, but he won’t be absorbing all the information that’s being talked about in the conversation.
7.He Becomes Jealous of Other Men Who Get Close to You
Tauruses are known for their possessiveness, and they value loyalty above all. So if a Taurus man sees you acting all cozy with other men, even if that’s not your intention, he would definitely become jealous and frustrated.
He may show it by actions such as holding you close or being more physically intimate with you, hanging out with you even more, and asking you what you’re currently up to and who you’re with.
These are signs that he’s into you sexually—he won’t like it when he’s not the only man you give your attention to. So try not to make him too jealous, as he may flake out of any budding relationship you two have.
8.He Initiates More One-on-One Time
Aside from physical touch, Tauruses also have quality time as their love language. Happiness to them can be something as simple as resting, relaxing, or lazing all day with the ones they love.
So if a Taurus man insists on or exerts more effort into spending more time with you, it’s a good sign that he’s all up in his feels for you.
Here are some ways he can show this:
- Planning date nights consistently
- Cooking meals or baking pastries together
- Putting his phone down when he’s with you
- Hiking or exercising together
- Netflix and chill
- Going on a trip together
9.He Gets Shy Around You
Ordinarily, Earth signs are shy individuals as they prefer just to observe their surroundings instead of being directly involved. Taurus men are no different—although they can be boisterous, some will be shy initially.
A Taurus man who’s adorably awkward around you is a sign that he’s probably thinking of how to approach you but is scared he’d get rejected at the chance. However, if he begins to send mixed signals, then he’s probably just playing you, so be warned!
At this point, try giving him subtle hints that you’re just as attracted to him as he is. This would push him to get past his shy phase and start showing his attraction to you for real.
10.He Puts More Effort Into His Physical Appearance
This is one of the classic signs that a man is sexually attracted to you—he wants to look the best, making necessary changes or improvements in his physical appearance so that you will choose him over other men.
A Taurus man won’t stop making these conscious efforts until you notice him. He’ll purchase new clothes that he probably would only wear when you’re around and start going or spending more time working out.
Additionally, he would stand taller, puff his chest out, or flex his muscles when you’re around. This is all part of his performance of making you attracted to him. If you see a consistency or pattern to these actions, he’s secretly trying to win your heart!
11.He Learns Your Daily Routine and Adjusts His Schedule Accordingly
As mentioned earlier, quality time is one of the love languages a Taurus man has. So, it is no surprise that he would want to acquaint himself with your everyday routine and schedules to see how you spend your time.
Once he acquires this information, he will make the necessary rearrangements to his schedule so that he can come to see you in your free time. If a Taurus man asks you what your day-to-day life looks like, then he wants to take things up a notch.
Here are some questions that could indicate this sign:
- What time do you usually get up on weekends?
- Where is your go-to breakfast/lunch/dinner spot?
- What time do you finish work?
12.He Envisions a Future Together
Another sign that a Taurus man is sexually attracted to you is that he openly makes future plans with you in it. Tauruses like to think long-term, but this does not necessarily translate to marriage. It can be about taking trips together or future dates.
This also means that he’s envisioning a future of passionate nights (and days as well) for you two together. He’ll just start casually mentioning his free time or events he plans to go to, subtly hinting that he wants you to be there with him.
13.He Showers You With Romantic Gifts
Tauruses value luxury, beauty, and artistry—and there’s nothing they love more than giving and receiving gifts. Specifically, they get pleasure in giving extravagant gifts, which they consider as a romantic gesture to the ones they’re attracted to.
If a Taurus man has the hots for you, he will definitely give you sensual gifts such as fragrant candles, lingerie or silk nightgowns, bath salts, satin eye masks, pillows or blankets, perfume, body oils, and fresh flowers.
However, he will also give you mundane things such as souvenirs from the trips he took, clothes, tantalizing food, drinks, anything really. They also love receiving gifts themselves, so if you can, return the gesture!
14.He Boasts About His Finances
Tauruses are rulers of the financial aspect of the zodiac. They value and often flex their finances and how they’re secure about them since they start building their wealth at a young age.
Naturally, a Taurus man would be boisterous when he talks to you about his personal finances. When he’s into you sexually, he’ll take any opportunity he gets to show off his money by paying for expensive dinners, giving you luxurious gifts, or simply talking about his financial decisions.
Additionally, he may even help or support you financially if you have debts, bills, or taxes that you need to pay. Yes, they’re that extravagant, especially to the women they’re lusting after!
15.He Gauges Your Sexual Compatibility
A Taurus man would want to determine his sexual compatibility with you by asking you personal questions. You, too, wouldn’t want to do the deed with someone you’re not physically compatible with, right?
Here are some of the questions he could ask:
- What are your sexual desires? What are your turn-ons/turn-offs?
- How often do you prefer having sex?
- How and where do you like to be touched?
- What makes you feel desired?
- What are your dealbreakers when it comes to sex?
- Do you need to have an emotional connection to someone before having sex?
- What’s something you’ve always wanted to try?
Although sexual incompatibility shouldn’t be a major dealbreaker to most, it’s still an important factor to consider if a Taurus man is sexually attracted to you. He wants to make sure you’re both similar in this regard before increasing the heat levels.
[ Related reading: How Does a Leo Man Test a Woman? ]
16.He Offers His Help For You
This is one of the more subtle signs that may be mistaken for friendship since Tauruses are naturally helpful and practical. However, it can still determine if a Taurus man is sexually interested in you.
If he specifically offers help to set up furniture or appliances at your place, know that this is his way of finding an excuse to come over. Pay extra close attention to offers of help where he makes sure it’s just going to be the two of you in a particular location.
Additionally, by offering his help, he wants to show you that you can depend on his physical prowess and skills. It’s also one way of flexing his physique.
17.He Takes You on Romantic Dates
Tauruses have a penchant for fine dining dates as they want to establish their sexual interest in you by ending these nights (or days) with a kiss. However, this is not the only date idea up in their sleeves. They may also take you to the following:
- Hiking on tourist spot trails
- Exploring botanical gardens or local parks
- Concerts or other live performances
- Luxurious spas
Bonus points if he tries to be physically intimate with you during these dates—holding hands, lingering touches, and hugs. This definitely means he wants to take things to the next level.
18.He Welcomes You Into His Inner Circle
If a Taurus man introduces you to his family members and closest friends, he wants to make you feel special and apart from all the other girls he interacts with. Don’t be surprised if he declares his intentions to his inner circle.
He does this to show you his loyalty and commitment before moving forward with your relationship. This also indicates that he’s not just consumed by his sexual desires; he also wants to have a proper, healthy connection with you.
He won’t do this abruptly—he will first give you subtle hints, such as casually mentioning family or friends or asking questions related to them. Although this may seem like he’s moving too fast, Tauruses are just very family-oriented people.
19.He Prioritizes Your Safety
A Taurus man who’s deeply attracted to you will be worried about your mental, physical, and emotional well-being first. He wouldn’t ask you to meet him in sketchy places and make sure you’re safe all the time.
Here are some of the actions you can expect of a Taurus man who’s into you sexually:
- He walks you to your car or house door
- He asks you to text or call him if you get home safe
- He defends you against people who talk smack about you
- He advises you not to engage in dangerous activities
- He eases your fears and offers you reassurance
20.He Plays Music to Set the Mood
Tauruses are drawn to all things sensual, and this is reflected in their musical taste. If a Taurus man is into you, he will play ambient, soulful music to send a clear message: he’s into you more than you think.
This sign will most likely manifest if you’re in a car together and he connects the aux cord to his phone. He would play anything between jazz and R&B—specifically something with saxophones that can give a romantic yet intimate ambiance.
21.His Efforts Will Become More Obvious to You
This is one of the easiest signs you can spot. If you see a Taurus man going the extra mile for you, it speaks not just of his sexual attraction but also of his romantic feelings.
Here are some scenarios you can’t ignore:
- He makes compromises for you
- He shows genuine interest in the things you’re also interested in
- His words reflect his actions and vice versa; he’s also quite consistent with this
- He asks you follow-up questions in your conversations
- He takes the lead and becomes more assertive
- He values your personal space and lets you be
22.He Places His Trust In You
Since some Taurus men are inherently shy, they don’t open up too easily. They keep their secrets close to their hearts and avoid letting their feelings show in their faces.
Once he begins being attracted to you, he will start confiding in you. He becomes more willing to show his vulnerable side as he shares his fears, failures, and insecurities with you. He will also encourage you to connect with him emotionally so that he doesn’t feel alone in his vulnerability.
Although you two will start engaging in deep conversations, his sexual desires are definitely still there, so don’t worry. He’s simply taking his time building a deeper connection with you before taking things to the next level.
23.He Only Looks At You
This is the culmination of all the signs I’ve mentioned in this article. A Taurus guy who’s sexually into you will only look at you. He doesn’t just do all these things to other women—you’re the sole object of all his attention.
Additionally, he will prioritize you even with other distractions present in his environment. You won’t catch him constantly checking his phone or scanning his surroundings. As the quote says, in a room full of art, he’d still stare at you.
Frequently Asked Questions
1.What is a Taurus Man’s Love Language?
The sensual, loyal, and down-to-earth Taurus man enjoys the finer things in life, which is why it’s no surprise that their love language is physical touch and gift-giving.
Taurus men are devoted to their partners and are secure in their relationships. They exhibit this by being intimate and affectionate with the people they love. Additionally, since they value luxury, they love giving and receiving gifts to and from their partners.
2.What Signs are Most Sexually Compatible with Taurus?
Tauruses are naturally inclined toward someone with whom they can form deep sexual connections. They would choose partners that they are undeniably attracted to, like two magnets coming together.
Here are some of the most sexually compatible zodiac signs with Tauruses:
3.Is a Taurus Man Interested or Just Friendly?
You would know that through his actions: if a Taurus man is interested in you, he’ll go out of his way to show you and make you feel attractive. As I have said earlier, he knows what he wants, and he would definitely be straightforward about it.
Although he may have a shy and awkward phase in the beginning, once he realizes that he’s attracted to you, he will move past this and begin performing romantic gestures.
As Earth signs, Tauruses are sensual and naturally romantic creatures. It’s no wonder that identifying whether or not they’re sexually attracted to you can be a challenging endeavor. However, once a Taurus man is all up in his desires, his intentions and feelings will be quite apparent.
I hope you learned all the possible telltale signs that could point you in the right direction concerning your relationship with a Taurus man. Don’t be afraid to return his sentiments if you’re just as into him as he is to you, or walk away if sex isn’t something you seek right now.
Josephine Fuller is a contributing writer for dailytimesblog.com.
She is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, and She has been researching love and relationships for over 20 years. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. She’s also an astrologer who uses the stars to explore and explain her unique perspective on life. With a special blend of wit, wisdom, and insight, Josephine brings the heavens down to Earth in her writing about astrology.